gigi. what's going on hun? it is so perfectly normal for things to change in a relationship once you add a child to the equation. DH and I have been having our fair share of dramas - so much so that I left for a few days, and told him if he didnt do the things (see a physchologist and doctor) that I had been asking him to do for the last FIVE years - yes that's right - FIVE then our relationship is over. I mean what I say, and he knows that, so now he is doing those things. While it isn't perfect, its a work in progress, and I know he is trying. I hope you can find some peace hun, and work through this. I have been a single parent, its hard work - but was better then staying with L&N's father. But I don't want to go down that road again if I don't have to. The fundamental difference between DH and the ex, is that he is willing to do anything it takes to make our relationship work, and at the end of the day that is what it is about. There are TWO people in a relationship, and its organic, and flexible, it changes from day to day, sometimes you step up, other times your partner steps up, but ultimately you should be in it TOGETHER. too often the balance is tipped, and the woman ends up doing all the emotional work...and it bleeds your soul dry.
I have added u as a friend - hope you can see the videos. It will make you laugh.

will have a look at these photos Kim later today. got swimming lessons this morning.

Aston slept better last night - which means I did too thank god! so are feeling remotely better today.

Hope everyone has a brilliant day.