Well sorry your massage didnt go quiet as you planned it, and i hope you get out again one day, even after Dh experiencing his third child here he is still hopeless at times with settling him, i see him sometimes immitate something he has seen me do to settle him down, sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt, sometimes its just quicker to do it yourself but i guess they rely on that fact lol

My new one now for Mason and Cooper when they are both whinging and carrying on at the same time is to start clapping really loudly, it takes the focus off what they were doing then they are laughing at me most of the time, crazy kids!!

Got Cooper carseat out of layby tonight, so swapping him over to that from capsule, he will still face the back of car, but i am hoping it might put a bit more air around him then the capsule which is so much more enclosed