Taralee, I was exactly the same with DTD at the end of my pregnancy with Jovie. I remember being in tears & DH not understanding at all what was going on... he kept saying "You don't have too, I'm not even asking it of you"

Well... have a look in the Punching Bag.... very hard weekend over here my poor husband's pride has been bruised as has his face. He's recovering but its sad because it was our special night.

Basically we went out to celebrate our 11 year anniversary and decided to take the train so we could have a ****tail after dinner (something we never do) and when we got off the train on our way to the restaurant a young kid pushed Pete & smacked him. It was awful for him.

I can't complain about help around the house with DH, he even hired a housecleaner fortnightly to help do my jobs for me... that was when I was pregnant with Matilda & she's still working for us!! Pete's household job is dishes. We don't have a dishwasher so he has to finish all dishes before bed... doesn't always happen, but it does happen most nights.