BellyBelly Life Member - Love all your MCN friends
Jun 2004
The Festival State
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There is a good reason your niece rang you Vicky. In this whole crazy chaotic world she survives in, she knows she can trust you and that you will listen to her.
Well had hossy appointment today....being sent for further tests on blood....they think i prob have GD....just great....3rd baby and everything falls to bits on me. Head very much engaged and head down....feel blah and so worried.
Have my scan this Sunday. The girls have combined birthday party on Saturday too!
Thanks my beautiful friends for the support. i'm ok. just keep doing things that keep me here in the NOW. my neice is doing ok. swinging from being distressed to being ok. I know being out of the chaos is a relief for her. just being able to do "normal" things like paint her toenails with Laura, and watch mama mia, and do teenage type things. dh has been amazing. he hates speaking on the phone yet has spoken to child safety on two seperate occasions, made up her bed in laura's room so that she felt safer, just came and said to me, "going to go over to the shopping centre this morning, and take L and Aston and Nathan. Thought I would get L something, to say thank you for doing jobs around here. might make her feel a bit better". Making me cry just thinking about it.
we have an appointment with Child safety on Monday. one day at a time is all we can do. so we are going to have fun this weekend. and deal with Monday on Monday.
Kim - I had GD with Aston. so if you have any questions hun ask away.
The girls had a great time at their little party....Chelsea had lots of fun playing with My friends little girl. And for the big news....Jasmine took 2-3 steps and was standing un-aided!!!!!!!!
thats exciting Kim. she will be running around before you know it! how exciting about your scan. I'm sure that bumblebee is definately a little boy.
I had a book party to do today, and Laura had her first mixed party (eek!) so DH took DN and the boys to the shopping centre. He picked up some sheets for aston, and gave DN some money to get herself a top. He said that she had a big grin on her face when he gave her the money, and was very thankful. She is starting to talk to him more, and even play a little which is a good indicator that she is feeling more comfortable and safe. She has major issues with men, so it makes me feel great that she is feeling safe with DH.
It was great to have some time out today for myself. the party i did was for very good friends, so it wasn't work - it was so lovely to spend time with them. I didnt leave until 2pm. Was just what I needed to do.
Tomorrow we are going to the beach and catching up with another BB friend and her daughter. so looking forward to seeing her. She has asked me to be present at the birth of her baby, I feel so incredibly priviledged and blessed to be a part of this.
Aston is asleep in his big bed tonight. he slept in it for his day sleep yesterday and today. we read stories on his bed tonight, and I asked him if he wanted to sleep there, and he said in a quiet little voice.. yis... and snuggled down into bed. feeling a little teary.. my little man is growing up.
BTW girls if you are interested in wanting to see what it is that I'm selling please let me know and I can send you catalogues.
thank you again for helping in keeping me grounded. it means a lot. x
V if you could send me one that would be great. I have a friend who does it...but still hasnt sent me any info but i know how busy she is and never online much to ask her...dont want to pester to much!
Thats so sweet of DN and Dh bonding....thats really great that she feels safe and wants to warm to him. How cute is Aston and his bed. Chelsea loves going to bed...its always a quick 'night Mummy' and the head snuggles into the pillow!
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