gigi

I so know that feeling of not knowing what to do. Its how I felt before I left the exH. I was desperately unhappy, but felt so incredibly guilty about taking the kids away from their father. In the end it was me ending up in hospital that pushed my decision. His complete lack of ability to support me in a time when I needed support more then I had ever needed was the clincher. He also ended up giving me a centrelink debt, because he lied, and said that he had the kids for a certain amount of time when he didnt. for me to prove otherwise required more energy then I had, we were at court already regarding visitation, so I let it go. I discussed with centrelink that I was unable to pay back the amount that they had set, and we negotiated a lesser amount per fortnight.

Would your DP go to counselling? sometimes having that third person can lend some objectivity to the situation and can help him to HEAR what you are saying. I wish I could say something to make it better hun. thinking of you