Lily Dust - I never understood why people took it so personally and were even kind of affronted by our cosleeping with DS...it's not like we were making THEM do it! I couldn't deal with him in the bassinet in our room without dissolving into tears, so it's bed sharing all the way with DD, too. At least this time we have 'one we prepared earlier' who proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that cosleeping does not create dependant and developmentally compromised children
My little meerkat and I have to go birthday present shopping for DP...while DS is with MiL!
BTW had a great night last night after eventually getting to bed (my own fault) - no lumpy boobs (let alone leaking out of breastpads!) and good 3 hour blocks of sleep...despite a wheezy, sick 3yo sleeping in the same bed (next to DP - he NEVER takes daddy cuddles at night, so it was a breakthrough).
Have a good day, all xxx