I fogot to say Kristie that in regards to your friends miscarriage, I had one in 2004 and it is crap, there is nothing anyone can do to make you feel any better and all you can do as her friend is to let her know you are there to litsten when she needs to talk and that its ok to have a good cry.
I feel so sad for her, I hate to hear of anyone having to go through that.
Let her know of this site if she isnt on here already, I found it just after mine and found everyone very helpful and inspiring with regards to trying again. Sorry to go on!!