Just know that things WILL get better. Right now is the hardest, most demanding part of motherhood so it is normal to feel the way you do. I feel so harrassed sometimes after a day with the boys that I don't want DH anywhere near me! I just want my body to myself for a little while!! By the time Joel was 6 months old things started getting much easier, he had more wake time so I didn't feel like my life revolved around naps, he slept better and was just easier in general.
Viv - Trish is totally right!! It is soooo normal to feel the way you do right now. Days like today when my toddler is just being a nightmare and Logan has not slept all that well and DH is just bugging me I feel like screaming and running away just for 5 mins peace on my own!! LOL. Hang in there, and in the meantime talk to your DH about how you are feeling and try to make some time just for the two of you if you have someone that can look after bub for a few hours.

The other thing is as he gets older and feeds less, you will have more opportunities to get out on your own and do some things just for yourself, it might seem like a long way off yet but it's probably only a few more months before that happens.

Trish - awww, thanks hun! The picture in the paper is a better photo, but I'm pretty happy with how they turned out! And don't feel too bad about K's nail - I've done it twice!! He was overdue by 10 days so when he was born he had really long nails so I had to cut them straight away, but I didn't realise the skin had kinda started growing over the nail on his thumbs because they were that long and you should have seen the blood!! Funnily enough, he didn't really cry but every time I looked at it my stomach dropped.