Viv - well said about the self-settling or not thing - whatever works!! Teo does a bit of both to be honest - I give him 10-15mins to self-settle then if that doesn't work rock or give top-up feed. Most times he is asleep within that time, if not no harm done I say! As for coping - going great guns now! Between 3 and 9 weeks was a different story, but he is a much happier lil fella now. How are you finding it all?

Hee hee Kellie - am in total agreeance of that one! :-)