Trish - glad you're not worried about Joel. I actually have a heart murmur too, didn't even know till I had my first surgery (between DD and L) and then it was confirmed by my ob and an ECG when I was 12 weeks prg with L. Mine is an 'innocent' murmur, as most are. I think if main valves aren't involved then it's generally not a big deal. I survived till 29 without even knowing I had one! Apparently they are diagnosed a lot during prg due to the increased blood output from the heart, at other times they may not even be heard.

Bad day here today - this little bloke just won't settle off to sleep on his own at the moment. I've had to fight him every sleep. It's wearing me down...I don't know what's gonig on but I really need it to pass NOW! Last two nights have been heaps better though with 3.5-4.5 streches between feeds and no other waking or resettling. I hope tonight's a good night, I really need some sleep after today!