Trish- probably a good thing I don't live in Mel, be so tempted and we haven't got our tax back yet! Gratz on the savings every bit counts . Thank you for the well wishes, DP was told he couldn't have kids so we are hoping things have repaired and not just a lucky once off 'shot' lol. Shall see how we go. Can't try TTC till a month after my chicken pox shot in October can't wait to have all the needles out the way until all the preggie ones again! I keep getting flash backs of things I'd forgotten, the craps, the sleepless nights, making me think maybe I shouldn't go back again LOL.

Saffi- Yeah I need one of those, I'm sort of over a year late... dum de dum *acts all innocent* do you think they'd believe I'm still a virgin and Ry was an immaculate conception? :P. Yes it was really upsetting he didn't have much to do with him for a few months when Ryan just sort of laid around and didn't do much but since about 6months onwards and especially lately he's been spending heaps of time with him, they have pillow/wrestle fights on the bed all you can hear is Ryan peein himself laughing and laughing and DP holds his hands and takes him for walks around the house and plays 'aeroplanes' with him. Whether he likes it or not he's going to be more involved :P Even if it's distracting Ryan while I deal with the iddybiddy.

Kazaraz- is there any local bakery's near you? Got my DP a mud cake covered in cream and strawberries and chocolate shavings was absolutely massive for $19 which is pretty reasonable for a bday cake

Anyone else got the household itch? I've been cleaning and rearranging all day I'm exhausted!