hi all.
cindy thats fine,thankyou for asking him that was really thoughtful.im glad you and al have had a chance to sought out your future together,grant was devastated to think you may have split.
tracey dont be so hard on yourself,most mothers loose it and swear at there children,i know i do,it isnt right but it is perfectly human.
chantelle is also taking off all her clothes and nappy ALL THE TIME,she never has clothes on for longer than a few minutes.she is also asking to go to the toilet.she has done poo in the potty and big toilet several times in the past week and also wees but has also had many accidents.i am going to buy her some nickers today.
we are off to qld on sunday and to be honest with you i dont even want to go.we are hard up for money at the moment,and i just know that it is going to be hard with 4 of them.especially on the plane.and at the moment the weather is absolutly horible up there.oh well we are going so we will just try to think positivly through each disaster cos i know there will be many.
racheal corey and james both did gymnastics and loved it,it is very good for the brain as it teaches them how to control there bodies and excercises the left and right side of the brain.
melissa,dont be too hard on yourself,being a mother is bloody hard especially when you have a child who does not exactly come out the way you always dream.corey was always a very challenging little boy but thank goodness he is growing out of that.hang in there and maybe try the posotive parenting program,it is absolutly fantastic and is designed for children between the ages of 2 to 5.i have done it twice with james and corey.it is also called the ppp program,maybe you could ring the maternal child health nurse or google it to see if it runs in your area,the nurse will tell you if there is something similiar for you aswell,really have a good think about it cos it does work and is much nicer than yelling at your kids and losing control which is what i did when i felt it was tooo hard to handle and i felt lost.
okay check in on you all tomorrow.
nikki