Babies Born October - December 2005 #19

[deancey]

Hi everyone

well still nothing here so I have decided to go into work till midday tomorrow and then a good bye lunch with everyone. Jamie thinks I am silly but I feel like I have left things undone if I dont go back and say proper goodbye etc. 4 hrs wont kill me and like you said Nikki he isnt going to fall out if labour does start. MIL lives 15 mins from work so I could be there in a jiffy.
Went to playgroup today and Jordan had an accident. I was a little embarassed but everyone was good about it and even cleaned it up whilst I cleaned him up I guess its bound to happen at a playgroup.

Krisite glad to see your scan went well. LOL at Michael thinking he saw a doodle...... who knows? only time will tell but I saw Liams at 12 weeks so he may be right.

thanks everyone for being so supportive. Jamie and I were driven insane with all the texts yesterday about whether it had started again etc.....Everyone has eased off today so its all good, Jamie went back to work and said to call if anything so all is good.
Take care everyone, its so cold today

[Krisvee]

Hi!

Rachael - thanks for that!

Tracey - how are you feeling? I hope you have a nice day at work today with your lunch out!

Well, we've told a few people about thinking it will be another boy and I'm getting very annoyed...I even vented in the punching bag thread or whatever it's called.
Yes we're happy to have another boy!!!!!! I can understand people making comments to a degree BUT my mum basically came out and said that I've talked myself into having boys (because I'm oh so clever and powerful!) and don't I like girls etc...I was so mad at her - anyway she crapped on for ages - and this was after I told her I was getting annoyed at comments!! WTF????? So annoyed...

Anyway...Having a cruisy day today and then am doing a party in Roxburgh park tonight!!! Will take me ages to get there I think so I hope it will be a good one...however I think I'll get the delivery couriered when I get it in...only $8.50 which I swear would be less than the fuel I'd spend on a 2 hour+ round trip...
Chat later!

[Pandora]

oooh I hate that Kristie. When we talk about having another bub everyone says 'yeah it wll be nice to give him a sister' and 'so your trying for a girl'. Mmm nope we'll be trying for a baby. No offence to anyone who does try ofr one or the other, I just dont like the way that its assumed (by my family) we are, or that we're somhow abnormal for not doing it.

[nicole mckay]

oops that would be me,sorry kristie,
i guess i am like that cos when i was prg with chantelle i made it NO secret to anyone that i desperatly wanted a little girl since i already had 2 boys.but you are right at the end of the day it is a baby,another child to be a part of your life

[Krisvee]

Just a quick one as I'm wrecked...

Just wanted to let you know Nikki that I wasn't talking about you! LOL!!! It's just the people we've told that we think we're having another boy that have been really negative about it when we are very excited iykwim?? and mostly I'm just really cross at my mum - she actually said that I've gone against the universe sort of thing and that one of my boys might end up gay because he was meant to be a girl - I mean wtf?????? and even if he was gay I would still love him...
Really, at the end of the day a healthy baby is all that I ask for...geez, if you see what some people have to go through thats all you can ask for...

Must get some sleep - nigh nigh...

[Pandora]

yeh nikki, i have no problem with people wanting to have a paticular gender, just with my relos expecting that I do, and implying there is something wron with me cos I dont.

Anyone heard from Tracey?

ETA: Couldnt be bothered putting in a hole seperate post. I ffel sooo sick. I went to a breakfast seminar for work on Friday, and about a half hour after eatig started to feel a bit off colour. by 4:30 I was nearly passing out, hot, nauseas etc. Went to bed at 9 and didnt get up til 11, felt worse and did a HPT just in case, but thats not it. Then it seemed to get better yesterday but still yuk this morning. AF arrives. Surely this cant all be PMS? Serously, I never had PMS before I had Milo so I have no idea whether it can be this bad, but I'm laying bets its food poisoning fromthe salmon I was serverd from breakfast - htough no one else from work felt ill afterwards...

[deancey]

Hi ladies

well i am still here, only 13 days till Liams due date and hanging in there. We are off for size scan tomorrow so I will know whether I am allowed trial VBAC or will be booked for c section. I am prepared for the later now.....although I know I will have a good teary over it anyway.
Today we had a major break thru with TT. Jordan actually told me he needed to wee!!!!! Yeah. We have been just taking him all the time and he will go if he needs to but now he actually said he wanted to go. WOW I think its all sinking in.
He has been chucking major tantrums though lately, the last 3-4 days have been awful. He actually hurt me yesterday when i was trying to put him to bed, he scratched my face 4-5 times. I lost it, ashamed to say and smacked him back.
Today however, I have my good happy boy back and we have had a wonderful day playing cars in his room.

Rachel I hope you feel better soon. its awful when you are not well but you still have so much that needs to get done.

Krisite I dont think people think sometimes before they comment over pregnancy and babies etc. I dont think it should matter what sex you are having and also if you are not phased over having a girl. Mums say the most awful things without meaning them so try not to let it get to you. I know you and Michael would be happy with whatever this baby turned out to be..... as you said as long as they are healthy.

Well hope you are all enjoying the weekend
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