Laurin - big hugs re the marriage counsellor I know it takes a lot out of you emotionally when discussing... thinking of you.

Hey we are going to be in Melb the same time LOL, just finalising when we are going exactly...Jeffrey's parents live in Melb so we are staying with them but only 1/2 the time, im still not comfy staying there all the time since the MIL comment of me being a bad mother not giving Julia things that she thinks I should give her long story.