Babies Born September 2006 #82

[Cougar]

i see the post that gave me a big dose of the poos has been taken off.

[Freya]

i see the post that gave me a big dose of the poos has been taken off.

I was going to just let this matter go and stop posting in this thread but Ive decided after this unneccesarily nasty post I have a right to explain so here I go. Even though I believe I did NOT post anything offensive, you had a sook so I deleted it to save someone else the trouble of being offended too as that wasnt my intention. I was being mature (which is more than I can say for some) and under the impression that we could all have a adult discussion without it turning into mudslinging.

And on that note, sad that it has to be a narky one, Im going to pull out of posting in this thread. Its not anyone in particular, Im just getting sick of having to walk on eggshells because atleast one person a week takes offense at something one of us says (or doesnt say in the case of missing people in personals) and sooking occurs. I thought we were all mature adults who could have differences of opinions without being catty highschoolers but I guess I was wrong. Its getting to the point where Im scared to even talk about my child for fear someone will have something negative to say about my parenting skills or take offence at something that was innocently said, or that Im a faker or attention seeker in reference to all my pregnancy troubles. Im not going to waste my precious downtime during Jetts naps to stare at the computer screen for hours while I try to compose a 'safe' post so as not to upset anyone.

Its sad that its getting to a point where we are pidgeon holed into discussing the weather or generic subjects because just about every other adult subject that isnt kid related is off limits because people cant have a good natured mature discussion and accept that everyone has different opinions. I could have taken offence a million times over at things said in relation the the War on Iraq, being that my husband is military, or anti-formula feeding opinions but I dont because hey, each to their own and I can often see the validity of those opinions even if I dont agree with them.

You know where to find me if you want to keep in touch, I'll be around BB doing other things Thanks for the laughs and letting me share my first pregnancy and motherhood experiences with you, its been quite the ride!

Oh and good luck to all our preggo's and those TTC, I think we may just have a record on our hands for the most pregnancies in a BB group!