Yeah Jodi, we met on valentines day 5 years ago. At a valentines ball it was for the heart foundation or something. I might look into the water issue cause you're right I don't want it to become a problem later. Its hard cause she gets so distressed, not just crying but really screaming then she wants to get out of the bath straight away and wants cuddles cause shes been so traumatised by it! I only wash her hair when I have to cause it also upsets me alot.