MD, another flimsy suggestion: Would she sleep better at night if you don't let her have an afternoon nap? Or would you just have a grumpy bum all evening and still be up half the night?

Cas, Happy Birthday for tomorrow! 25 is the good insurance birthday, you get lower rates now because you are out of the 'irresponsible youth' category. I am 26 next week.

I took the dog pic off, didn't realise that they go into a newly added folder that everyone can see lol. Thought it was a bit questionable and didn't want to get told off.

MD, another even flimsier suggestion: would mittens stop the finger fiddling?

Well, W has been in bed for 1.5 hours and has woken twice already so I doubt that my wish of a decent sleep is happening tonight lol I guess good things take time.