Arte - I dont think we are 'meant' to do one side or both... i think diff ppl think diff things and as long as bubs is happy and growing we are all doing a fab job. I personally have been trying to get him to take 2 sides and feed less often as i want him to go a little longer b.n feeds and also to maybe get my BBs under control a bit more!!!! I cant lug these humungous ones around for too much longer LOL!!! Noah is also quite demanding and a bit of a milk monster but I am trying to alter this a bit and it is working for me.. I hope it didnt come across like this has to be done, it is just what is working for me (today!! LOL)
Jaz and Cally thanks for the reassurance... I write it all down at the moment (I knwo you are giggling at that Jazmum!) so I will see how it goes the next few days...

have a good evening everyone..