md- i've tried that! i lined up a whole heap of beer bottles and put them in his shower...or i even put them in his work boots...makes no difference. i'm so sick of bending over!
hope your wait isn't too long, fingers crossed..

hayley- i can't believe you think you're a bad mum! you're not at all, you're fantastic!
if anything i reckon your dp would be looking at your sil thinking how awesome you are compared to her.
i'm no expert, but i just know that everytime i have stressed myself out about something lewis is doing that i think he shouldn't be, or that it will form a bad habit, it has made it worse iykwim? do you remember how much i used to stress about him breastfeeding to sleep at every single sleep and how i thought i'd still have him on my boob at 15years old? well, some how i just kind of 'got over it', stopped stressing about it, didn't tell anyone about it....and what do you know? he stopped it. all by himself, with no change from me. xoxoxo
i say- do what works...whatever is easiest for you guys atm.