Thanks Arte, Pap and Md (have to spread the love )
Md - I just feel better at the thought that it's probably just a phase. Thankyou!!!!
She will be making her First Reconciliation next Friday, and i've told the other mums that we might run way over time because we'll be with Father for a while lol. Another friend said her DD is going to need to sleep over at the church!
I think it's just a case of dealing with it a day at a time.
Pap - i took your advice re what your mum used to say. This afternoon she had a heap of seed pods and i'd told her not to take them home in the car. She did take some, but I thought - It doesn't really matter. Would have been an issue about my power had I taken it further.

I'm off to have a play before the routine chores have to be done