Willow- I don't know if I did the right thing with DD1 or not, but I have explained that the longer she's quiet and Eleni gets to sleep, WE get time together alone without bubs! I've explained to her that this can be OUR special time when we can do something together!... So far that has seemed to work somewhat!

Bad night here last night.... she went down before 8pm and when I went to bed at 11pm I decided to try a dream feed.... she fed OK, but obviously didn't burp which I think was our issue..... because she was up at 1am then at 2:30am then at 4am, then at 6:45!! grrrr So not trying the dream feed anymore!