Not good news unfortunately. Went for u/s, baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks. We are all very sad. Dreading telling all the people that know. I knew something wasn't right but didn't want to admit it
Love you all, thanks for your love and support.. I seriously love you all.
Sarah, you were not insensitive at all xxxxxx
Hi Kymmy - crossing everything for you, try not to worry beautiful. Hope Brit is ok too, let us know!
Hi Madame - I'm sure Kymmy wouldn't see that as insensitive, we're all good mates now to know what each other means etc. xx Bummer for you though, more practice for you required lol.......gosh, the old bd'ing and 2WW again, I'm dreading that but secretly can't wait all at the same time.
AFM - went to Ikea yesterday girls and bumped into my ex's mum and sister. First time I've seen them since the split 8 years ago. I was very close to both. They didn't recognise me at first as I used to be quite blonde. It was so nice to see them and I showed off Amelia and his mum said that she's very cute and I said, yes, she looks a lot like her daddy (ie he's cute hee hee) and made sure my ring sparkled in their face lol - couldn't help it. (we were engaged when we split if you remember). Anyway, his sister has a baby too, how freaky is this, born 2 months after Amelia and guess what her name is Amelie.............weird or what. Anyway, my only wish was that I was looking a bit hotter than I am, I was dressed in nothing special but I had just had a pedicure so had sexy toenails and my hair was in a side plait so mum said I looked young.....all good lol. You know what though, is it weird that I came away thinking about my ex for the rest of the day then? It took me a long time to get over him, I loved him more than anything in the world back then and it was almost like it brought it all back again and made me quite sad. Oh well, I have a beautiful girl now and a lovely husband so ce la vie!
Gotta run but let us know how you went today Kymmy, hoping everything is ok for you beautiful. xx
kymmy darling, im so sorry that your baby has decided to watch you from above. im kissing and hugging you all the way from over east. cuddle your archie, brit and hubby extra tight and know we are all with you.
xox madame xox
Oh Kymmy I just logged on and saw your post, Im so sorry for you all chick, I know we will all be with you in spirit through this I know theres no commiseration strong enough for this xx
Dont really have the heart to natter on now.. I hope everyone is travelling well..We are off to a day stay at a sleep clinic tomorrow so Ill fill you in after.
Hi Girls, sorry to divert but something's bothering me.....my best friend (not that I see her much these days) just text me at 8.45 am asking if I'm home this morning so I text back and said, Amelia is going down for a nap at 9.00ish and then I'm home until 11.30 am for mums group but am home in between. She wrote back, oh, was going to pop in at 9.30 am but don't worry. So I wrote back and said no come over, but give me till 10 as I need time to have a shower and get ready while Amelia is asleep, you know how it is lol (she has 2 kids). Didn't hear back, so I waited 10 mins and sent another message saying, are you coming over? and she wrote back, "nup, I'm going to have coffee with one of the school mums!" and that was it! I just wrote back and said that I hope she didn't take my text wrong and it was fine for her to come over, just that Amelia was going down so she wouldn't see her and I just needed a bit of time to get ready otherwise I was good to go! (half an hour to have a shower and get ready after putting Amelia down is too rushed for me, I'm knackered as have been out and about all week). Anyway, she hasn't replied so now I'm worried I've upset her, she's been so touchy lately and in a way I'm annoyed because giving me short notice like that with a baby is not always possible is it. Was I rude in my responses as I didn't mean to be?
Have been reading but no time to post the last week or so.....just wanted to send massive hugs to Kymmy....terrible news for such a lovely girl. I hope you are getting on OK.....I dont know what else to say....just take care of yourself hun.
I need you to know how much we love you too, you're such a special part of our beautiful group and when something like this happens we're all here with you - feeling the emotions It is so hard losing a baby, please talk to us about it whenever you feel, you've got my phone number - call me if you ever need a chat, okay?
Words can't describe how sad I am for you, I am so sorry for your loss
Please don't worry about having to tell people the news. When I was in that situation I simply sent out text messages to those who knew explaining that we had lost the baby, and was not ready to talk about it yet. People will understand.
I am on my phone so this will be quick.
Thankyou all so very much for your beautiful supportive words. They mean so much, they really do.
Went into hospital yesterday and had a d&c, it was bloody awful.. Had a really hard time managing the pain afterwards, it was as bad as labour contractions. Got home at about 11pm. DH has been awesome, He is such a good man.
Today will be Brit's first day back at school after rolling her quad. She is going to have to tell all her friends the bad news, poor girl.
This really is such a horrible thing to have happen, as some of you know, but I am feeling alot stronger today. I will text everyone who knows today to let them know.
Thank you all once again, my beautiful friends. I appreciate you all so so much, especially now.
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Re: Babies Born ~ November 16th-30th 2009 #5
Look after yourself.
I know theres no commiseration strong enough for this xx
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