Far out Ginger, that so wouldn't fly around here! They are half his kids, when he is at home he needs to be doing half the work! I want to kick his ar$e and tell him to sort himself out! That really isn't fair to leave you doing the child raising. What about the weekend? Don't tell me he does his own thing and leaves you with the kids all the time? Stand up for yourself hun, next weekend announce you are going out for lunch and leave him to it! Selfish behaviour like that would be a marriage ender for me, I hate it when guys think that their life can go on uninterrupted when they have kids and expect the mum to do all the kid stuff and make all the sacrifices.