Yeah, that is what it is coming down to Cass. DH wants to go and I can't survive the marriage if he doesn't get his way. Already any voiced opposition has led to the "you are selfish, you only think of yourself" rant. It will only go downhill from there. And it looks like country life is impractical for school/kindy runs so we will be in a house in town. No emu Don't know if I can bottle up my resentment this time (about the move in general, not just the emu lol).