OP - Congratulations. How exciting to have three little ones running aroucnd. (and I'm serious, I love kids and I often have DS's two little friends around to liven up the house).

It's interesting you mention that you and DH don't feel like you are done yet, because when DS was under 12mths, I felt like I was done, but now he's 2.5, I think he's totally adorable and cluckiness has kicked up a gear. Unfortunately I don't have time to procrastinate or see if I'm still feeling this way in a year. I turn 41 in October and am feeling my energy wane and know it's taking me longer to get over illnesses - gosh I sound like an old woman. Most of the feelings about having a second child is that we don't want DS to be on his own, so he has someone to play with, but I don't feel like that is the right reason.

And yeah DH has picked up his act, but he's done this in the past and it doesn't mean anything, because he's done this before and just gone back to his old ways.DH thought that having children wouldn't interfer in his life. Yep. I know. So I can just see us having two, me running around trying to be supergirl, and him just slacking off and whinging about why the house isn't clean or why I haven't done this or that yet.