I've been such a slack poster! Read everything then usually too tired to reply!

Meg- ouch, good luck with the surgery. And good luck woth the meeting, if you were just being honest isn't that a good thing? Could they want to meet to discuss concerns or are they just gonna get their backs up?

OP- yay! Thats great, Ash is 5 and still wakes up saturated! And congratulations with the pregnancy news! When roughly are you due? How exciting! Hope your sister comes around. I think no matter how many you have or don't have there is always going to be times when life is a struggle, if it feels right to you then who cares what others think.

Malyna- Ikwym about other half life not being interfered with post kids. That was big problem here, still is I guess but now the girls are 2.5 and 5 its not such a struggle. So I know where you're coming from with wanting him to lift his game if he wants another. Good luck with your decision, see what feels right for you.

Were only just starting swimming lessons with Emily next term, better cut down on the junk food if I'm expected to get into bathers!

On a positive note TT here just worked itself out no probs! I had waited til I started annual leave so I'd be home, made big deal about undies so she really wanted to wear them. First wee she did on the floor after that says I want toilet and off she goes! Thats it, even if were out and I've popped a nappy on she still asks to go. Just gotta work on poo tho.