Alison!! I did miss someone, you! Sorry!!!
Sooo sorry about your friends little girl it's just horrible I can't even imagine how they must feel it's just too sad!
Sorry that the BFing seems to be dropping off completely, have you tried maybe putting her on the boob at a different time from the morning? And maybe when she's only just waking up so she's still half asleep and might not notice it's not the bottle? A sneeky sleepy feed maybe Would be sad for you too lose the one feed you still have with her. But it's not like you haven't tried to keep it going!
BTW how is your roid/fissure going? All good now?

Gotta go Harry beckons