thread: Babies born~February 16th-28th 2009 #12

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Nov 2004
    VIC
    1,794

    hell yes people lie!!!
    i remember mentioning this even when our bubs were really little

    my theory is that they think that whether their child sleeps or not is a reflection on them as parents- WTF!!
    its nearly as bad as their thinking that their children are clever because they walk early or crawl early!
    man there is so much pressure on us as parents let alone the extra pressure that we put on ourselves
    man i am philosophic tonight!

    boof just fed off me for 2 hours straight just now- my boobies are sore !! plus he is teething BAD - lets hope he sleeps more than the 45 mins he usually does at this hour of the night before he wants another feed lol

    hugs all

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    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    bloomin heck this kid is programed to 'seek out and destroy' she was throwing bowls out of the drawers and smashing them on the floor cheeky bugger!

    i turned her seat today too car trip are getting very upsetting i was aiming for a few months longer

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
    6,745

    Haha Olive - I have one exactly the same! If there is one thing in the whole room that she could break, she makes a beeline for it. I think she can sense glass from the other end of the house

    We turned Miss J a couple of weeks back as friends needed our baby capsule and she has been better in the car. I would have like to have kept her longer but with DD1 forward facing I think she wanted to be the same. She would scream whenever we were getting in the car but she's fine now.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    in my head
    1,975

    Heidi and Nate!!!

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    Registered User

    May 2007
    3,220

    Happy birthday Heidi and Nate

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Sep 2007
    Blue Mountains, NSW
    314

    Hi all

    Thanks for all the well wishes, just popped on to post the poem I wrote for Milana's first anniversary (it was pointless watching the clock all night, though I may as well be productive).
    Not trying to make anyone cry (but most of my friends did):

    One Year Gone.

    Today, we should be celebrating, that Milana is one,
    Not mourning, the sad fact, that she is gone.
    Every minute, of every day, she is on my mind,
    My daughter, a stronger bond, you just can’t find.

    Stolen memories, of growing up, getting bigger each day,
    My mind’s eye, more beautiful, as should be the way.
    In dreams, we are happy, she’s in my embrace,
    As I wake, harsh reality, is so hard to face.

    Cruel life, took her away, right at the start,
    True cycle, meant that we, should never once part.
    One day, in the future, forever will be born,
    I will, hold her again, no more to mourn.

    Written for: Milana Matilda Rose
    On: 23rd February 2010


    Thanks for reading, will pop and say hi occasionally,
    Take care all,

    Tracey
    Last edited by BabyButterfly; February 26th, 2010 at 07:29 PM.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    4,427

    Much love to you Tracey. You are a beautiful mummy.

    Lots of tears here

  8. #8
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    thats beautiful tracey so well done.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    Melbourne, Vic
    4,338

    Been at work last couple days so Happy Birthdays to those I have missed, Leon yesterday, Heidi today.

    Sleep wise Emily is good (touch wood) so different to Ash. Unless she is teething or unwell she will do 11-12 hours now. And people do lie, I even used to lie a bit with Ash just because I did not need to hear crap how the "should" be doing this or that. Sometimes I wonder why mums IRL can't just support each other like we do here. Good friend of mine son is nearly 2 and he often wakes at night still, she just goes with the flow, yes she would love him to sleep thru and in his own bed everynight but if it doesn't happen why should all these other people get upset by it.

    Had my girls at the health centre today also. Nai, Emily is so close to J. Em weighs 9.1 and length 74. Ash at the same age was exact same length but weighed 8.6.

    Meg, Holly, Olive- are you all better with the illnesses you all had?

    Sorry Tracey, just noticed you posted at same time. Thank you for sharing your poem.

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    Melbourne, Vic
    4,338

    Oh Tracey- I think you expressed how you feel so well thru that and yes it has made me cry. Thank you so much for sharing it.