Yay Olive! 40 mins isn't so bad to resettle. I was worried DS would feed more during the day to make up for the night and also to make up for the hours in care but I really think he was ready to drop the day feeds anyway. We will continue to persevere with cows milk here too. I am slightly worried that he's dropped the b'feeds and not picked up the cow's milk but as with everything else, I have to trust him to know best what he needs. They're really big feeds at 11 and 6 so maybe he's just condensed lots of little ones into two big ones? My CFHN said they "should" be having about 600ml of milk or equivalent of dairy per day. Don't know how they get that number and it's meaningless since we can't measure breastmilk feeds anyway!!

ETA - snap OP!! BellaBambina is Alibaby!! I was reading back through the thread and she seems to have had a name change. Before we moved the spare mattress I spent a night squished onto his cot mattress on the floor cause I was feeling sick and needed to lie down and was desperate!! Wasn't doing that one again! Do you have any family or friends that could lend you a mattress for a little while?