Nai, that's great, congrats on the dry wake up! Must have been nice to not have to change all the bedding this morning

Heaven - lol, I can only keep up on the days that I'm at work - clearly I am not under the pump like Nai

Your playgroup experience sounds good, that's great! Hope she continues to enjoy it. GL with the vax research too - I read your other thread but can't really contribute sorry. But I respect you for doing your research and checking all your options before making a decision.

Kaz - doesn't sound good at all last night. Can you leave him somewhere today and get some sleep? Early night tonight? Something like that?? Hun, hope it gets better again soon and this is just a temporary thing for you guys. It was going so well!!!

On a side note - where do you work? Are you going back soon? Thanks for the website info too, off to check it out now.

Malyna - we have quite a bit on. DD does swimming one morning a week, then we have our Mothers Group, which is about to turn into a playgroup so we will meet some other new mums and bubs, she also goes to another playgroup when my mum look after her on Wednesdays, with my sister and niece, so she's got other bubs there, and then we do a music playgroup on Friday mornings. Sounds like a lot when I write it all down!

If you're looking into playgroups, check out the playgroup Victoria website, or also the music playgroup I do is fantastic, has a bit more structure than a normal playgroup. Its called Mainly Music, they run them all over the world so there's probably one near you somewhere! It has half an hour of play/craft, then half an hour of music - singing, dancing, rhymes, etc, then a short break for morning tea and then a few songs to finish. DD is just starting to really enjoy it - she has been a bit too little before now.

Update on my BF issue: spoke with DH, sent him some info from the ABA that I found, turns out he doesn't want to wean her before she is ready either but he feels useless when I am fluffing around getting ready and all DD wants is a feed. So I agreed that either I'll get up earlier so I can deal with her when she wakes, or as soon as she wakes I stop what I'm doing and feed her, so that he can then look after her while I finish getting ready, without her cracking it.

So that's good!