Hey girls, rough night here - he woke every hour or two. Earlier in the evening he was resettling himself by himself but then he needed help and then at 4:30am I gave up and we slept on the mattress but he was still really unsettled and kept losing the dummy and waking and wriggling. I have not slept well

Kailani - I have no advice hun but I have been right where you are - wondering if I'm being selfish or expecting too much and then having a few good days and feeling fine about everything then a rough patch and feeling like I can't cope anymore. It seems to be motherhood (at least my experience of it) interacting with how much sleep I've had the night before. I agree with OP - I'd do the consult, book in and get as much info as you can and then just see how you feel when your spot comes up. You can always not go or go and try for a day or two and leave early or go and see what they say and then only do what you're comfortable with anyway. It's so hard isn't it? Are you in your new house yet?
Bella - Fantastic that DD is doing so well in CC and that sleep she did was awesome!! I would die of shock if DS did that
OP - Check out a website called kellymom for info and research on breast feeding past 12 months. Lots of great info there.
Malyna - Yay on more editing and more pages! DS would be in 00 pants too if he had a sposie on. I've had the same issue with his head with tops too. With socialisation, he is in CC three days a week, does swimming one morning a week (well, 30mins!) and mum's group on one morning for a couple of hours. I'm actually a bit worried there's too much going on for him all of a sudden but if he wasn't in CC I'd probably be looking around for a playgroup. There should be a couple of different ones where you are. Churches often run them too.
Olive - Hope you guys had a good night hun.