ali, so so so sad

my BF's DS died during labour 8 weeks before DD1 was born, its was the most devestating thing that has ever happened to someone i love. when he passed away they called me to be with her, i got to see and hold her DS and was truely blesssed to have been able to meet him. its going to be a long hard road for them, i cant imagine their pain. just be there for her, offer a shoulder to cry on , make then dinners etc.. but keep your distance if thats what they want, go and visit her today if she wants visiters, she may need you there