Oh Ali that is so very sad. Sending enormous massive hugs your way and lots of thoughts and strength for your friend. So devastating. All you can do is follow her lead. What she wants/needs may change daily/hourly. Your gifts sound beautiful and very thoughtful. Don't second guess yourself hun. I am sure you are being very sensitive and supportive. She is lucky to have a friend as good as you. Take some time for your own grief too hun. xx