crumpet - so lovely to be hearing your updates. Legs up, babe! Keep that wormette cooking as long as possible. You're doing a tremendous job too

afm - more stitches have broken down, and I don't exactly have a whoo-har at the moment (or much of a perineum) because it seems the stitches keeping the vaginal wall have dissolved too ... have brought my appointment with my surgeon forward 2 weeks, and will be seeing him on Wednesday ... we're that he looks at it, and can see exactly what's going on, explain it to us, and give us a realistic idea of how long the healing is going to take. He's assured me over the phone that this does happen, and it does heal itself ... we're just really praying that all of this will be over and healed and everything will be fixed and feeling fine by christmas ... I want to be able to sit in my MIL's spa with a glass of champagne at Christmas ... and DH and I would like to be able to to DTD by then too! We've not been allowed to have sex *at all* since the birth, because of the damage down there ... it's poor DH's 30th b'day in a few days, and we can't even have birthday bedtime, let alone start working on baby #2 like we'd planned...

ah, the things we do!
thanks hun!! plodding along nicely atm, see OB again on monday but he will be soooo impressed coz he always said he wanted to get us to 30w min!! go me and my cervix!

god hun im feelin for u, ive been following whats been going on "down there" and wow ur so strong dealing with it all and a new baby!! hope it heals soon!

Crumpet: Thank you for popping in to keep us updated. Feet up and rest lots hun. Keep that little wormette of your baking for a little longer. Eeww at having a look at someones placenta. There was a lady in our antenatal class that turned green when we watched a video of a woman giving birth. She would've fainted at the sight of the placenta in real life!!!! Thanks hun, I think Deacon is a bit of a spunk too, but I'm pretty biased Can't wait to see your little wormette. She will be gorgeous.

AFM: Poor little Deacon has just come down with the most terrible cold.
ive got my feet up, well most of the time, and no sign of her deciding to come earthside just yet so all is good here, im aiming for 4 more weeks, will bring me to 34 and i can deliver at my private hospy like planned.
oh god she must be bad!! lol. im not that bad, just the dam blood pressure carrying on again!

awww poor little Mr D!! hope he feels better soon! give him a big squishy from me and wormette!

oh and i loooove the new username, i was so confused trying to work out who it was!!
Big cuddles to you Deacon
love the new username sharon!!!