hi guys, hows it all going! ive been flat out here being just me with the bubs, mums away for work and i move to my friends place this weekend, exciting stuff! good news is phils mum has been babysitting every sat nite so i can go out partying, im sure youve seen the 'lovely' fotos on my FB from my bday

jade is drooling heaps too but cant feel anything in her gums and no rosy cheeks so maybe just a dribbler haha, and not whingy.

shes quite good, wakes at 5am for a feed and goes back down til 8am, then her day sleeps range from 45 mins to 2 hrs, shes very active and chatty during her awake time so i think it wears her out and her longest awake time so far (since we left MBU) is 1.5 hrs, usually 1 hr tops. she goes to bed about 8pm, has a dream feed at 11pm and goes thru til 5am, so im getting decent sleep, but i need it with all these appointments (BTW apparently i dont qualify for priority govt housing, DV relationship and financial hardship 'arent good enuff' grrr)

not talking to XP atm apart from when i drop Jade off at his mums, he says hes looking into councelling for his mental probs but i doubt it, and he lost his job due to anger, hmmmm...

have started hanging out with an old male friend of mine, nothing serious but some dvd's on the couch and snuggles once a week seems to be doing wonders for me (and no not suss snuggles, yet)

TMTM: not that i know much bout kids but maybe clare feels abit put out by the new bubs, i kno ur flat out but cud u maybe organise a 'mummy and clare day' and take her to do somethin she enjoys and remind her she is special and lil Tom isnt any better or worse than her, just different, etc, so maybe she wont be so jealous and naughty? just an option