I haven't read the last thread on the updates, so i'm a bit out of whack. Just thought i'd pop in and make myself seen! haha
Everyone here is great. Theo is just growing growing growing! Hes getting very chubby, got two little rolls on his legs, hehe, they're just too cute! Its very sweet seeing how much he loves kaili, his eyes follow her around everywhere. If she's in eye sight, he's a happy baby
Well the trip to clermont for the funeral was surprisingly great! Asides from Kaili getting car sick and chundering everywhere haha. But we made it there and back with only one 10 minute stop! Theo slept the entire way! And thank you natty for your comment on my bfing, havent had a chance to respond to that thread either!
kymmy.,.... commmee onn!! haahahaha, I'm in suspence! Can't wait to hear the news!
okay
sorry for no persies. in a rush
love you all
xx
I was in and out of the car ALL day and poor Archie was soooo hot and bothered and GRUMPY!!
I started bleeding again yesterday so i went to the Dr today who sent me straight away for an ultrasound and a blood test (hcg)..... they let me in for the u/s straight away as it was 'urgent'. They said it looks like I have retained 'products' (i hate that word) so the Dr wants me to go to the hospital for a D&C I told them i wasnt keen for a D&C (who would be??) so they sent me away with antibiotics for now but i will have to go to the hospital next week.
The sonographer said thats why i would've been getting feint positives (my theory was right!... told ya i should be a doctor.. haha)...
But i've just read the report and it says:
"Mild to moderate amount of retained products or pregnancy seen within the endometrial cavity"....................
HUH??? So what if i am pregnant? Would they just have gone ahead with the D&C anyway!!???
I get the results for the blood test tomorrow and i'll be P*SSED if i am pregnant! They would've just let me go down there tonight for a D&C without even confirming if i am pregnant or not! And if i hadn't read the report i wouldn't have even known!
AAAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!!!! I feel so angry and sad and emotional and tired and upset!!!!! Also my mum had to ruch my dad to the hospital today cos he has a severe infection in his leg (he thought it was gout but ended up in the Kalgoorlie hospital last night as he couldn't drive his truck any further.. he is an interstate trucky ) He ended up making it back to Meckering and switching drivers but by the time he got home his whole leg was lumpy and pussy and he was delirious and couldn't even WALK!!!
SO BAD BAD BAD DAY!
AND POOR MIKAYLA TOO!!!!
Can you tell i'm upset???!!!!
Kymmie that's horrible, on the scan does it look like retained placenta or a pregnancy bubble lol
so I got in a fight and asked jose to pick up his things today and move out, I've been miserable for awhile constant fighting and ptting ppl down calling me names and I am over it, he never listens to me and if I ask him to do so
ethibg he won't so it's really the kids who suffer....so yesterday he was suposed to come straight home cos he said them were gonna start pays fortnightly so he wouldve been home around 3ish cos they finish early on Friday , I call him at 4:30 and he's at Morley cod they gave him a cheque and that's the bank their signatures are at( have asked him a hundred times to ask them to get the sig sent to the bank neAr us) he likes it being there so he can go to the pub after so he's at the pub wouldve Been for about an hour so I have a go at him for not telling me or giving me enough notice( he wouldn't let me go to my cousins last band recital of the yr for an hour cos I didntgivr him enough notice) so anyway I have a go at him and say don't bother coming home.....now any smart man would know you are not actually telling him to not come home you are telling him to come home faster but he avtuall decides to do what I ask then doesn't he so i call him a couple hours later and he's still out drinking cos I said not to come home and he's drunk and starts having a go at me about how horrible I am blah blah blah so I told him he's no angel either and I want him to pick up his stuff tomorrow
does anyone know if he tries saying I can't kick him out if I can cos the house lease is in my name?
Yeah it is very upsetting I wish there was something someone could do, I deff feel very blessed for all my babies...
Me and j have been fighting lately and I'm getting to the point of wondering if the kids would be better off if he moved out so they don't have to witness it along with them suffering and him not helping them to get back at me..I told him about Mikayla and he said you think she would take a hint... I almost pinched him in the face....I hope her Dr's figure it out soon!!!!! It makes me so sad and she's such a wonderful person who doesn't deserve this
Well he didn't come get his stuff and I DIDNT call him today yay !!!!!!!! I asked my 16 yr old sis and her bf to move in as they wanted to move out anyway and it will be nice to have extra help with money and time
Actually feeling really good about it like I'm not upset about it, a lol upset but not wanting him to come back
hey kymmy, i'll be thinking of you tomorrow
I hope it all goes well... x
Mon - thinking of you too, hope everything is working out and your happy which ever way you go. You know we'll be here whichever decision you make. Youre a strong woman.
I can't stop thinking about Mikayla.. faark i feel horrible. I wish there was something we could do. I went into her BB group, it was a little boy She would be such an amazing mummy.. why does this keep happening??
AFM theo has only just gone down! its midnight! bugger! Totally ruined my diet this week too madame - pizza, redrooster, cakes... crap! Not looking forward to weigh in at all! Think i might be super healthy now till wednesday to try and avoid gaining anything - although i have a feeling the damage has already been done! but last weeks weigh in my total loss added to 9.8kg! totally stoked. just hope it stays that way!
Serenity slept from 8-5:30 I went to bed at 8:30 to 5:30 but woke up feeling a bit sad trying to remember I have 4 wonderful kiddies but he hasn't even called or come to see the kids or get his stuff so I just wonder what he's doing that's so damn special but then I don't want to know lol looked over my bills and money will be tight I have 200 a fn left after rent and bills for food and my sis and her bf are only getting a lol from cl which sucks cos I don't wanna ask for lots so I'm hoping he pays me cs cos I was gonna ask him for 200 a week but he only has to pay me like 130 according to cs so I don't really wanna get them to collect it , it's a bit overwhelming that they pay us so lil so we struggle while they live it up, but he won't be seeing the kids til he pays me *sigh*
aww mon.. i don't know what to say
i hope he helps you out, you and the kids can't live on 200 a fortnight. Is there anyway possible you could get a partime job? like tupperware, or learning ladder? something that you could chose your own hours etc. learning ladder would be good, cause people wouldn't care if you took the kids with you... just a thought.
thinking of you, hope it works out. and i hope he realises that his kids are the most important thing xx
Hi Girls - I haven't been on for a couple of days so am a bit behind!
Hi Mon - sorry to hear about things at home, sounds like you've made the right decision though so you keep at it, things will get better. Good idea on the Avon though, give it a shot, you could end up being mega rich lol, I have heard of that happening!
Hi Kymmy - I'm so sorry to hear you have to have a D&C, so is what they say meaning you have leftover "stuff" from your pregnancy with Archie or is something to do with being pregnant after that?? Good luck and hope you're feeling ok. xx
I have had a nice weekend so far, enjoying it being a long one as it means I get an extra day with DH at home tomorrow lol. It was my oldest nephew's 20th birthday yesterday - I remember changing his nappy, scary though ha ha so we went to my sister's for a barbie and a swim. Because it's been so hot here the pool was 32 degrees, beautiful! Amelia loved it as usual and in the evening when she was having a sleep I had a very relaxing swim....I love night swims and I just floated and chilled, gosh it was beautiful. Today we're just slothing at home, I've done a bit of Amelia's scrapbook but it takes ages just to do one page - I'm not very good at it so am a bit indecisive with what to do......anyway DH wants to go to the nursery now and get some plants. Amelia's been good although I think we're going through another growth spurt, she's been hungrier than usual - gone back to 3/3.5 hourly feeds instead of 4 hourly feeds and Friday she had a rather grumpy unsettled day - guess the heat didn't help but I did stay home in the aircon so I don't think it was that. She's been waking more again at night, not for a feed but just a little whingey, doesn't cry as such just whimpering, the dummy normally fixes it but it's still hard getting up a few more times to do that again when you're used to sleeping through uninterrupted, how rude lol!
Anyway, best go make myself presentable if we're going out in public. Hope you're having nice weekends, aside from the crappy bits some of you are experiencing! xx
So I've been really ****ty thinking jose was at his mates and wasn't coming to see his kids but turns out they dropped him at the traino on Friday night and haven't heard from him since, I've called two hosp and the police and he wasn't there so I'm waiting for the police so I can do a missing persons report
Hi Girls its been a few days, Ive been really busy and havnt had much free time.
Kym- Hope the D&C went ok today, I had one January last year after I had a miscarriage. Its uncomfortable for a few days but you should pick up again soon, poor girl xx
Mon- Whats going on? Hopefully he is just taking some time out and having a think about things. Keep us informed, are you ok?
Telly- I had one of those nights last night with Ruby, but when she woke up and smiled at me, hmmmm, all I could do was kiss her!
Natty- Hows thing? Where ya been chicky??
Alison- That swim sounds so nice, I havnt been for a swim yet. Has Amelia had a reaction to the chlorine? I guess not or you wouldnt keep taking her in, der!
hi ubba just on my mobile now so i'll keep it short. mon i hope your dh is found and kymmy my thoughts are with you. haven't had a chance to post we have been so busy hopefully tomorrow i will get a chance to post. love you guys
Kymmy - Pretty much what natty said - have the drs said anything about what they actually found? I can only imagine your frustration, avoiding the hospital during the entire pregnancy, the birth, and having to go in now for a d&c.. So long as you and achie are healthy, thats all that matters. Thats very sweet that brit went and got you a pressie with her own money.. naw what a gorgeous girl. lol on the deoderant And yes.. we are all incredibly lucky to have eachother to talk to. I often recomment BB to friends, but i know they don't really take note. I just think every mum should join.. its such an incredible network of people.. so much love an support! From losing a baby , to having a baby ... ive shared so much with you guys, i just love you all!
natty - my bfing issue is not longer an issue. I havne't really thought much about it since all of you lovely ladies posted your thoughts. I told DH that it was making me get a complex, and he said not to worry, if i didn't think anything of it than it obviously wasn't anything to worry about in the first place. But yep, it aggrevates me when ppl bring up something afterwards, like why couldn't you say something at the time? dhead. V sounds like such a cutie. By the sounds of it Theo is a monter compared, but i suppose its better to have a big boy than a petite one. Theo is now wearing mostly 0's. Although some 00's still fit (but quite snuggly). Havent had him weighed in about 6 weeks... haha, i'm so much more relaxed the 2nd time! Must go and do it this week. I hope her belly isn't giving her too much pain, but she sounds like generally a happy baby - so maybe its nothing to worry about.
Alison - yeah i'm with natty, ive given up on the sleep ins! haha! just comes with being a mum i think. Dads have it too easy sometimes. In the meantime - cranking up the stereo sounds like a brilliant idea! haha!
Annyway, AFM not much happening. My house looks like a bomb has hit it, but i'm not really fussed! haha! went to playgroup today, one of the mums there started crying, saying that he DH is calling her a lardass and other horrible names, and she thinks he's going to cheat on her crap! What do you say to that?? i just gave her cuddles, and she cried.... didn't know what else to do. And as for the card too ladies, its not just me, everyone has to chip in their bit too, fowarding it on and what not. We all deserve a pat on the back. hehe.
Madame - hot mumma losing 1.6!!! And i TOTALLY agree with kymmy, gee you are a STUNNING woman! you look like you belong on a magazine cover - a natural beauty
aaawwwwwwww
im blushing
kymmy and telly- is it a madame fanclub now? thanks girls. you're all too kind.
lost 1.6 yes, but put on 700g last week. we did manage to make 2 cute kiddies, hope little harper doesnt get my genetics- i have some what of a large behind and legs, poor girl. at least she looks a little more like me now, rather than my dh. tee hee hee- im cuter than he is
on the magazine shots- ill post a photo from our wedding album that is my favourite and actually looks like it should be a bill board
telly- you are a sweetheart in every way. too nice for your own good. there need to be more telly's in the world.
hows your ww going? theo in size 0's? wow! what a great bb mumma you are! tully is 19 months and in size1!!! hows that cutie kaili going??
kymmy- hope your dad is getting better. i hope you are feeling ok about all this hospy stuff. poor darlin, doing so well to avoid it all. i hope you get some answers soon and recover well. britt is a stunner and gets her sweetness from you too! what a cutie gift giver! maybe she was tryin to tell you something with the rexona
oh and did i mention how much i love archie!!!!!! oh my is he cute! great pics on fb!
i love all my bb girls too
we laugh, cry, vent and look after each other. id love us to be able to meet up sometime, wouldnt that be amazing???????
mon- is everything ok??????
hi billy, snowy
natty- i just love all the pics of you and v- im never in any with my kiddies...im always hiding behind that big black slr taking them!
harper is in 000 too, and she has so much cute stuff we were given that im trying to put her in- its like dress ups every day. all dressed up and no where to go. she's in her sunday best and i have a crappy pair of trackys on, spew on my shoulder and panda eyes from not taking mascara off 3 days ago. stunning huh.....
she is super cute smiling and giggling too- even at 4 am...love it! she gets sooky if im not holding her too. dh doesnt get how i dont get much done during the day- he'd probably let her scream and do the friggin dishes, but i dontcare really.
ubba- oh i hear ya on the busy too. and i only have 2 kids! it is tough though, i think even with just one bubba!
afm- things have been a bit tense with dh and me- stress from work i think and im super emotional and usually take things the wrong way. its ok, just a bit crappy. everyone has it im sure. we are just havinh some staff issues and are in the country so its tough.
harper is just beautiful. she is such a happy smiley baby. shes talking, smiling, watching her hands, nearly rolling over sleeping well and feeding well too. i just lover her gorgeous little face. a bit unsettled tonight, but she was so tired and was fighting it. she screamed for an hour or so, wouldnt take boob, or rock to sleep or anything that usually settles her and i was like, how do people who have this all the time deal with it!
i was going nuts! i am so lucky. she rarely cries x
my little tully is just fabulous too. i just love him to bits. my heart melts when i hear "mama!" hes such a sweetie!
i love you girls so much, thanks for listening to my rubbish
haha. But we made it there and back with only one 10 minute stop! Theo slept the entire way!
And thank you natty for your comment on my bfing, havent had a chance to respond to that thread either!
I told them i wasnt keen for a D&C (who would be??) so they sent me away with antibiotics for now but i will have to go to the hospital next week.
She would be such an amazing mummy.. why does this keep happening??
And yes.. we are all incredibly lucky to have eachother to talk to. I often recomment BB to friends, but i know they don't really take note. I just think every mum should join.. its such an incredible network of people.. so much love an support! From losing a baby 
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