L was 6 before he would stand to wee - which was fine by me because it meant I didn't have to clean the loo every day because of all the misses So far, A is quite happy to sit to wee - he will try to stand up, but for some reason can't wee, but as soon as we sit him down, he has no trouble weeing. With the poos, A is such a boy LOL, he loves to turn around and look in the bowl and exclaim "LOOK AT MY POO!" so maybe you could try that ROFL!