Trill funnily enough just the other day when he had a poo in his jocks I popped into the loo and made a big deal about the splash and made him have a look at it lol, he thought it was great. I might just keep trying that.

Cass I think they are the weeman? Im not to worried about him standing to wee I just wasn't sure if there was an age where they were meant to iykwim? I found these wee target things too which help them aim lol. Dh is ok, his nan was in a home in a catatonic state for almost 10 years so it was kind of a relief that she is finally at peace. He did tell me last night though that he felt guilty that the only time he cried was when a photo slideshow was played and it had photos of his mum.