Hey everyone,

Well, saw my surgeon again yesterday - and good news! I've been trying really hard nad its beginning to heal by itself. No bleeding anymore, just some pain and stinging for a few hours afterwards... So once i'm at the comfortable stage i need to keep up the fiber for about a month (althogh he says i should keep taking it forever, but i don't need to be so good about it like not every day)..

And so no botox injections at this stage... But if it does break down again, then i can do it quickly before it gets horrible! And he said there is no guarantee that this will happen with the next one! Yah!!

But he told me to be careful about going to the toilet after the birth, and take lots of fibre, stool softeners and suppositories if i need to.. dont let it go a few days (5 in my case after crying to a midwife to please listen to me and help me) cos that can make it worse!

I'm just bringing my own next time and bypassing the nurses altogether!

Thanks for all your support though!

Yael