Thanks Raven

My ob has advised me to start trying mid this year - when my DD will be about 10 months old. He's looking at it from a fertility point of view though not from a SPD point of view. Basically even though I got pregnant pretty easily last time, statistically I will have a 50/50 chance of miscarriage when I hit 40. So given that I'll be 39 in May this year, I don't have the luxury of a 3 year wait unfortunately. If it wasn't for this, I would be trying now! It's only the actual physicality of looking after a toddler as well as a newborn (all the bending especially) that I'm concerned about. I handle sleep deprivation pretty well so am not too fussed about that.

So all I can do is try as hard as possible to get it right. And not think about it too much!