Dusty, I too have no issues with donating or recieving organs in the case of my illness/death. I would be greatly appreciative of the organs if I were to recieve them to save my life. I do believe it is possible to feel something from the donor, maybe something of their spirit, as your DH seems to, but I don't think it would make them less whole in their death, kwim?

From where your DH stands, it seems to me that if he were to accept organs from a donor he would then be less of himself as he has discarded the dying organ and accepted one from another person, therefore taking a part of their soul/pesonality. Am I correct in how I have understood what you've said???