Noone should feel guilty or bad for not wanting to donate thier organs even if you would accept something. It is such a personal and sensitive subject. It is something that you have to be wholeheartedly for if you were to do it. If you are in two minds about it then it is better if you don't do it rather than say you'll do it then think you shouldn't and regret it. Espacially when you think of making that sort of decision for your child. I honestly don't know if I could donate my child's organs, so I wouldn't (at the moment when not faced with a choice- hopefully I never will be faced with the choice). I don't think it is a bad or good thing or right or wrong thing to do. It is such an individual thing to decide on and noone should sway anyone either way. People should be respected for thier choice either way.