Dusty - good on you for making sure that this is a topic that is out there between the two of you. My only comment on your DH belief is - would he be able to donate your organs given the circumstance arises?

SJ I know if my hubby wanted to donate I would even though I personally can't bear the thought, same with my mum, she has respected how I feel but has always said if it was my decision on her organs would I respect her wishes too, and the answer again is yes