anney- people can be really disrespectful!! I remember someone in my family once talking about how they went to a BBQ for something and they couldn't have pork there because of the muslim people and the meat had to be halal. And they were saying: why should we cater for them? Should have just not told them that it was halal anyway, what they don't know won't hurt them! I can't believe how rude this is. They just don't get it at all!! It's not the same as a kid not liking it's veggies so you hide them in it's food!!

tobily- that's what it's like, like you've gone and joined some weird cult!! I feel like you too, I just don't discuss things with them anymore.