15 weeks and buns gone :(

[mrsmac]

I am so sorry for your loss hun, please take care of yourself.

[feeb]

so sorry for your loss.

Take it easy and look after yourself, surround yourself with love and take as long to greive as you need.

Fly free Little Dylan

[Early Kids]

I am so sorry

I totally agree with feeb, look after yourself and take it easy.

I love the name you picked for him, RIP Dylan.

[boomba]

Im so sorry again hun

Take some time to grieve and if you need to yell then yell! Lve to you all xxx

[Trillian]

I am so sorry that your little boy left far, far too soon I hope that the return to work isn't hard on you and that you are surrounded by loads of love and support.

[Glamourcide]

Sweetie... I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Fly free little Dylan - look after your mummy and give her the strength she needs to deal with losing you.

Please take it easy on yourself, hun - take time off work if you need to. I know I would be too heartbroken to face going to work so soon.
*big hugs* My thoughts are with you.

[LadyRaven]

I have no leave at work to take, not that I really care at the moment. Hospital didn't do anything I went there with cramping, bleeding and told them I think my waters broke and I got sent home with panadene fort and told to go home, went home, slept for an hour then woke up in a pool of blood and went to the toilet and there was bubs still attached to me... I screamed for DP, he came running and said whats wrong, I said Im not pregnant anymore, he asked how and I opened the door and said because Im holding our dead baby... he was devistated. I wasn't given any counselling support just a booklet on "early pregnancy, when things go wrong" pretty much gives you a definition of the different types of miscarriage then says you didn't do anything wrong and 95% of women have a healthy baby next time around. That's all, I'm young so I "shouldn't be worried I have plenty time"

[mrsmac]

That's awful, you have been through a major trauma they should be offering you grief counselling or somehting more than what they have.
Just remember you have everyone here at BB.

[Early Kids]

Hospital didn't do anything I went there with cramping, bleeding and told them I think my waters broke and I got sent home with panadene fort and told to go home, went home, slept for an hour then woke up in a pool of blood and went to the toilet and there was bubs still attached to me... I screamed for DP, he came running and said whats wrong, I said Im not pregnant anymore, he asked how and I opened the door and said because Im holding our dead baby... he was devistated. I wasn't given any counselling support just a booklet on "early pregnancy, when things go wrong" pretty much gives you a definition of the different types of miscarriage then says you didn't do anything wrong and 95% of women have a healthy baby next time around. That's all, I'm young so I "shouldn't be worried I have plenty time"

I'm really sorry, that should not have happened to you.

I'm disgusted in the hospital

[Anila]

O hun, i am very sorry for your loss.
My heart broke when i read your post, please know you are not alone, we are all here for you.
Dylan is such a beautiful name.
Fly free little one.

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[Toomanytoomany]

How heartbreaking for you - I can't imagine. God bless you and your perfect angel - I wish you peace and rest. Take care.

[Butterfly Child]

Oh Hunn im so so verry sorry about your loss of your DS , i definently dont think you should go to work on monday hun if your not ready give urself time to grieve xxx my thoughts and prayers r with you

[Nelle]

I'm so sorry that precious Dylan couldn't stay. Take some time off work if you need, perhaps you can go for a walk or visit a plant nursery and maybe think about if you want to plant a tree or buy a garden ornament to help you remember your son. xo

[StrawberryMumma]

CM I am so sorry that your time with him was so short.

Rest peacefully sweet baby Dylan x

Thinking of you.

[bubno.3]

Oh huni ... im so with the other ladies here please dont go to work monday if you dont want to ... you and you partner need to grieve and yell and scream and cry if need be. Work yes it is money but your health is soooo more important .....

[ElleJay]

Oh hun, I am so very sorry for your loss

[ss_storm]

I am so sorry for your loss...and what an awful experience to receive from the hospital. Please look after yourself and take it easy. Would you be eligible for compassionate leave or something similar if you don't have any other leave available to take? After what you have gone through I don't think anyone would expect you to turn up at work on Monday morning...you do need time to grieve and come to terms with what has happened, without having to deal with work related issues as well.

Sending cyber-hugs and best wishes.

[Arimeh]

Oh no I'm so sorry for your loss, and the awful treatment you were given, thats just inexcusable.

Please be gentle with yourself.
xxxx