15 weeks and buns gone :(

[mbear]

I cannot even imagine what you have been thru.

I hope you find the support you need...but know you have people here to talk to too.

[Samcougar]

Big hugs hun, i'm so sorry about your loss and that you were treated badly at the hospital.

[Inanna]

Oh CM I am so very sad to read of the sad loss of your son - you gave him a lovely name. I understand some of how difficult and painful this time is. It is lovely that you could take a photo of him - it is something that in time will be a treasure for you.

I am sending you love and support as you go through this time - lean on us all in here. Big big hugs honey...

[Inanna]

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[human bean]

I am so sorry for your loss and for all that you have been through

[luna moth]

I am so so sad to hear about you losing your precious baby. I'm really glad you took a photo of him though; it will give you one more beautiful way to remember him, when you feel ready to look at it.

I wish that your work had handled this better. Take as much time off as you need; but you are the only person who gets to say when you're ready to go back. Nobody bans you from work, and nobody forces you to go. If you feel ready to go back on Monday, then do it. If you don't feel ready for another 3 weeks, then don't do it.

Big big BIG HUGS...

[AwesomeFoursome]

I am so so sorry for your loss. The treatment you received from the hospital was appalling. Knowing that hospital I'm not surpised sadly. Sent you a PM.

[cheekyfrog]

My heart goes out to you and your DP. The way you were treated by the hospital is reprehensible. I'm glad you don't have to go into work on Monday as your health and well-being has to come first. I am so, so very sorry that you have had to say goodbye to your son. Please take care, contact SANDS and surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Much love and hugs.

Kerry

[kelebek]

CM I am sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to your family

Fly free angel Dylan and always watch over your mummy, daddy and brother

I am glad you have some time off, please take this time to be gentle on yourself, ie the photo is so prescious it was not an idiodic thing to do.

I am here also feel free to contact me if you just need a chat or a place to escape and forget....

sending lot's of love and support
thinking of you

N xxxooo

[LadyRaven]

Thank you all and thank you for the PM's and the contact numbers in Bathurst Mum2.

I am pagan, last night was meant to be the celebration of lights so I lit a candle for Dylan, today I will go find a little baby statue, a little fence and some flowers to plant around his grave.

I had a dream last night I had a full term Dylan in my arms, then I woke up... why haven't they created panadol for an aching heart? I guess I'm putting too much pressure on myself to "get over" it and move forward, just feel like I'm sinking further into a dark hole. How long does it take to stop aching so much??