I am so so sad to hear about you losing your precious baby. I'm really glad you took a photo of him though; it will give you one more beautiful way to remember him, when you feel ready to look at it.

I wish that your work had handled this better. Take as much time off as you need; but you are the only person who gets to say when you're ready to go back. Nobody bans you from work, and nobody forces you to go. If you feel ready to go back on Monday, then do it. If you don't feel ready for another 3 weeks, then don't do it.

Big big BIG HUGS...