You have all the right in the world hun. Dont let anyone tell you anything different. You have lost one of your children, and your grief is very real. You had hopes and dreams for this baby just like you had for your other children.
Please be kind to yourself and give your children a big hug, they will be feeling your grief too and need comfort as well.
We often have a "group hug" and in my mind, i always feel that somewhere in that hug, my angel babies are joining in.

thinking of you
treelo