loopy--It makes complete sense, and I completely understand. Every woman is ready at different times, and you'll know when that perfect time is for you!

I think the decision with the names is completely your own. I saw one woman on here that incorporated the names of her two into the name of her DS. My thought on it was that it's an honor no matter what--and it's no different than people that name their child after their mother or grandmother, etc.. You'll know that, too, when the time is right and your looking at your beautiful baby--you'll know what his/her name should be. Good luck whenever you're ready!