It doesn't matter that in reality a baby never formed. In your heart and mind it was there... and it's just as much a loss as any other miscarriage. The reality in your heart and soul is so very different to the physical reality, and nothing can ever change the fact that for you it is a devestating loss.

I am so sorry that you have gone through this, and so sorry that you have insensitive friends that don't get it.

BW